Abstract:
In recent years, research has begun to examine the relationship between individuals’
acceptance of their lesbian, gay, and bisexual (LGB) family member and their religious beliefs.
However, little is known about how the process of accepting one’s LGB family member is both
influenced by and influences one’s religious beliefs. Thus, data were collected from 14 semistructured
interviews with family members of lesbian, gay, and bisexual individuals in order to
examine how accepting one’s LGB family member influences one’s religious beliefs and how
one’s religious beliefs influence the process of accepting one’s family member. Results revealed
that while many participants were immediately accepting of their LGB family member when
they came out, others were not. These reactions were directly connected to participants’
religious beliefs. Also, several participants experienced conflict between having an LGB family
member and their religious beliefs while others did not. The level of conflict these participants
experienced – and the way in which they resolved this conflict – was related to the type of
denomination they belonged to and the level of investment they had with their church.
